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Thanks For Your Time

Posted by frank on 23rd January 2010 in Spiritual Dimension

It had been years since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved across the country in pursuit of his dreams. In the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and very little time to spend with his wife and son. He was busy working on his future, and nothing could stand in his way.

Over the phone, his mother told him, “Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday.” Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days. “Jack, did you hear me?” “Oh I’m sorry Mom! Yes, I heard you. It’s been so long since I thought of him. I’m sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago,” Jack said. “Well, he didn’t forget you. Every time I saw him he’d ask how you were doing. He’d reminisce about the many days you spent over ‘his side of the fence’ as he put it,” Mom told him. “I loved that old house he lived in,” Jack said.

“You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man’s influence in your life,” she said. “He’s the one who taught me carpentry,” he said. “I wouldn’t be in this business if it weren’t for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important… Mom, I’ll be there for the funeral,” Jack said.

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser’s funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he returned home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one last time. Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like stepping back in time. The house was exactly the same. Every step, picture, piece of furniture held memories, Jack stopped suddenly. “What’s wrong, Jack?” his Mom asked. “The box is gone,” he said. “What box?” Mom asked. “There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he’d ever tell me was ‘the thing I value most,’” Jack said.

It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly as Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it. “Now I’ll never know what was so valuable to him,” Jack said. “I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom.”

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. “Your signature is required on a package. No one was at home. Please stop by the post office within the next three days.”

Early the next day Jack picked up the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. It read, “Mr. Harold Belser.” Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack’s hands shook as he read the note inside.

“Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It’s the thing I valued most in my life.” A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch. Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved:

“Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser.”

“The thing he valued most…was…my time.”

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. “Why?” Janet, his assistant asked.

“I need some time to spend with my son,” he said. “Oh, by the way, Janet… thanks for your time!”

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In my past I have been guilty of focusing on things that really weren’t important in life – and I can attest to that because the things that I gave importance to are now gone. I pushed people aside to attain power and prestige and I gave priority to materialistic desires. But I have since learned that the greatest gift we will ever receive in life is time – the time we are given to make a difference in this world, the time we are given to make a positive influence on the lives of others, the time to live, learn, laugh, love and forgive. Thanks for your time!

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10 Tips to Stay Young

Posted by frank on 13th January 2010 in Physical Dimension

1.  Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay ‘them.’

2.  Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

3.  Enjoy the simple things. 

4.  Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

5.  The tears happen.  Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

6. Surround yourself with what you love, whether it’s family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, and hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

7.  Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it.  If it is beyond what you can improve, get help. 

8. Don’t take guilt trips.  Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is. 

9.  Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER

10. Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

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